Given my viewpoint, then, our deepest desires are godly
desires. We really do want to have peace, love, compassion, and so forth. It
just that these other urges and drives get in the way. But if we connect to
these deeper, truer desires, we connect with who we are at our essence;
children of God.
This then provides the background for my term
"resonance theology". Rather than it being that we are merely
conduits for God's love, as some teach, we are actually partners with God's
love. When I have compassion on someone, it's not just me having compassion,
nor is it just God have compassion through me because I am incapable of it. It
is rather, God and I having compassion together. We are resonating! When we
connect with our True Self, we find ourselves resonating with God's love,
compassion, empathy, etc...
In my Jesuit spiritual direction training we studied
Ignatian discernment, which talks a lot about the Good Voice and the Bad Voice.
The Good Voice is defined as God or the Holy Spirit. The Bad Voice is defined
as either our evil inclination or Satan. I think that another source of the
Good Voice is us! When we listen to our deepest selves, we hear not only God's
voice, but also our own! Sometimes people ask me, “How do I know that it is God’s
will and not my own?” My answer is that sometimes it doesn’t matter! If we are
resonating with God, if we are hearing the Good Voice, then it doesn’t matter
really if it is God or our True Self. We are probably hearing them both and
there is no real benefit in trying to sort them out. In fact, it only adds to
confusion and desolation if we try!
So when you are giving spiritual direction, listen for this
resonance. Listen for the joy! When a person is connecting with this resonance
down deep inside of them, it truly is a great consolation for them. We should encourage
this in our directee. We need to help them savor this. We should honor and
celebrate when this happens.
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